I often get asked if there is there one Type most likely to be a people-pleaser.
The answer is no, each Type can fall into this dysfunctional pattern. The motives and expression will be different for each Type, but the outcome still leads to a loss of self and misplaced priorities.
People-pleasing is the tendency to prioritize the needs of others to the point that you sacrifice your own well-being. You think or feel that your intentions may be honorable and good, but when you take this to the extreme you create codependency in your relationships.
Join me and my DYT Experts, Type 1 Jaleah, Type 2 Anne, Type 3 Sarah, and Type 4 Kalista. We’ll explore the childhood origins of this dysfunctional behavior (00:55) and how it carries on into adulthood. And the myths (1:15) about what Type is most likely to exhibit. The experts will address what people-pleasing looks like in each Type and how to counteract this tendency and create healing and new patterns for empowerment in your life and relationships.
How your Type’s natural gifts create people-pleasing:
- (1:45) Type 1 – Bringing Joy
- (5:26) Type 2 – Creating Comfort
- (9:27) Type 3 – Taking on Big/Many Projects
- (13:56) Type 4 – Being Dependable and Reliable
Now, how to use your Type’s natural gifts to create healthy boundaries:
- (18:44) Type 4 – Logic and Reason
- (19:55) Type 3 – Delegating and Getting to the Point
- (20:10) Type 2 – Grace and Patience
- (20:43) Type 1 – Friendly Conversations
What has come to mind for you, where are you people-pleasing? What tip can you use to begin correcting that?
Resources to support your healing relationships:
- How to End People-Pleasing Habits for Good! Healing Session
- What Depression Looks Like For Each Type — And How We Sabotage Our Healing
- Relationship Rehab! How to Make a Positive Shift in Your Relationships – Effortlessly
- Top 7 Blocks That Keep People Stuck—How Do You Compare?
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