Do you have a tendency to people-please, only to feel resentful and bitter after the fact?
Why does this happen, and what can you do to break the habit?
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A very good reminder. Thanks, Carol.
Wow. This was perfect for me to hear right now! Listening to what you were saying created a very uncomfortable tightness in my chest and throat and I could tell I need to clear my heart and throat chakra. Thank you!
Thank you so much! I’m a 1/2 and have struggled with people-pleasing my entire life and the guilt and resentment that goes along with it. I’ve chosen hobbies, friends, sports, college and what I majored in, jobs and even my spouse based on what I thought would please my father who I never felt truly loved me for who I was. He never hugged, played with or told me he loved me. He yelled a lot, was very critical and I was often scared of him. Please know I do love my spouse dearly and don’t regret marrying him at all, but the other major life decisions have really been unsupportive to me and I’ve had a lot of anguish from that. I ordered a copy of “Remembering Wholeness” and plan to read it soon, as well as continue to do these healing exercises. I know now it’s okay to do what’s right for me and say no to some things I can’t or shouldn’t do. I forgive my father and myself, and all the others who have been part of this pattern with me. Different bosses and people I thought I could trust that would take advantage of me. It’s time to move on and be aware of how I can handle this better. I think the tears I’m crying are healing tears. I’m thankful for you and for my creator who will help me through this and also to move on and forgive.
Again, thank you, so, so much. God bless!
You are welcome. I am so grateful it was helpful for you. Remember to come back and re-watch and listen to continue your progress.
this is exactly the issue im working on right now,its very helpfull for me.right on time for me this video. thanks:)
Thank you very much for creating a session on this topic. It’s really a big bonus to the whole DYT experience to have an accomplished EFT practicitoner lead us through healings.
Thank you for that acknowledgement.
WOW This is so very powerful. I didn’t think it would do anything, but I am totally wrong. I’m sitting here feeling washed out from all the emotional cleansing that this session has given me. My face is wet from tears of deep sadness and hurt that I’ve buried in my soul. It feels so good. I feel lighter. I’m sure that I will be coming back to this tapping session many more times to refresh my self worth and peace. Thank you, Carol.
Dear Carol, you have touched my heart with tears of appreciation. It is as if you have known me all my 63 years. Thank you for your clarity in realizing I am enough (which I had intellectualized but not believed) and that I am loved just for ‘being’ me. This session was just what I needed today. Blessings to you and your family! I will be re-playing to listen again and again…..
Thank you Lo! So happy that Carol’s information came just at the right time for you! Enjoy!
I am grateful it helped you.
Thank you very much for this Carol. I am a 23 who before dyt lived in my secondary because of childhood trauma. My natural tendencies to help other have always been too far into the people pleasing realm for my own health and peace. At 53 I am finally working on accepting myself, recognizing inwardly that I am worthy and worthwhile. You have helped me a great deal on my journey to self acceptance and loving myself first.
Very helpful. Thank you, Carol!
You are so welcome!
I’m a 2/1. I had to pause the video after addressing my beliefs in the first half. I literally hunched over and kept saying to myself, “This is my whole life. This is what has been playing out my whole life.” I had to stand up and pace the floor for a minute dealing with the heaviness of all this. This session has hit me like a brick. I am connecting the pattern realizing I’ve chosen to be blind to my “people pleasing” tendencies my whole life. But these tendencies and resentment have manifested themselves very prominently the past year or two. Well after watching this video I literally can’t choose to be blind anymore. I’m ready to work through this. Thank you Carol for all you have done and will continue to do for me. Thank you Carol’s team for making her wisdom so accessible to me. I am suddenly Remembering Wholeness and I am grateful.
Still working on this and recently recreated it in a big way. Good thing I book marked this clearing session because I’ve needed it often. “Even though I’ve recreated this pattern. I love and accept myself.”
I am so impressed with Living Your Truth in so many ways. I still struggle on dressing my truth every day but Sunday. On Sunday I feel so empowered and true to myself! I have always felt inferior to everyone , not good enough, not pretty enough, not smart enough, not knowing what to say in a group or one on one conversation, feeling I will say or do something stupid. Living Your Truth has given me so much more confidence but I have a long way to go……a work in process. Thank You so much for this powerful healing session!!!! As I wright this with tears streaming down my face, I am consumed with gratitude for you ,Carol and for my Heavenly Father for leading me to your program. I live in American Fork so I have seen you and some of your staff in your store. I have also seen you at the school your Katie and two of my grandchildren goes to. All of you radiate what you live. I’m a 3/2 and loving it!
Returning to this a second time. I feel awesome! I took the opportunity to practice this the day after tapping on this. I was getting ready for the day, when my child burst in to say a family member and neighbor wanted to talk to me before leaving on a trip. Now, before I would have dropped everything I was doing, skipped my makeup and imediately gone over to see this person. But I recognised what was going on and was able to say, “Okay, I’ll be over soon”. I got to wear in my new pattern when my second child brought the same message a minute later. I calmly finished getting myself ready for the day, and then feeling at ease and in my own energy I went over to see the person. Amazingly, on the way I reviecieved a compliment on the way from someone who hardly ever gives out compliments to anyone. My husband also complimented me on how gorgeous I looked and added I had a happy glow about me. And guess what! The person who wanted to see me survived that 10 minutes just fine. 🙂