Find out why they say Energy Profiling was a “marriage saver”—and how you can create your own definition of romance, instead of following cultural norms.
In this video, I’m joined by a panel of Dressing Your Truth Experts who share how Energy Profiling keeps romance alive in their relationships. Once they understood not just their own Energy Types, but also their husbands’, that’s when the magic happened!
Hear their thoughts, tips, and answers.
(1:17) How understanding Energy Profiling…
- Helped Anna K and her husband be aware of their opposite needs.
- Let Jenny and her husband recognize and embrace their commonalities.
- Encouraged Stephanie and her husband to go with each other into places of newness.
- Allowed Deborah and her husband to let go of cultural norms and “should”.
(7:17) Ways that Energy Profiling keeps the romantic connections going…
- Deborah and her husband create a special road trip to connect intellectually.
- Anne K and her husband “point” each other in the direction to see things through each other’s eyes.
- Jenny and her husband found a key touch-point that creates a positive start to each day.
- Stephanie and her husband’s “walkabout” open communication.
(14:04) Does their husbands’ dressing their truth enhance their attractiveness?
How can Energy Profiling enhance your romantic communication?
Resources to support your relationship:
- Your Yin/Yang Relationship Combo: How and Why it Matters
- Rewarding Communications Course (free with your Lifestyle membership!)
- Dressing Your Truth Men’s Course
- How to Write the Perfect Love Letter for Every Type
If communication has ever felt like a frustration in your relationship, you’re
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Very intresting video! 🙂 I am a T4 and the the intellectual connection is very important for me. My Husband is a T2 – he needs more physical connection than me. It’s not always easy, because I need time alone and I do not always want to hold hands… 😉 I love Deborah’s story so much! 🙂
Totally understand even though I am T3. My T2 husband sometimes gets frustrated when I am in the middle of something and he decides he wants my attention at that exact moment. He is working on it and I am trying to find ways to stop. We are still working on intimacy though. I feel like he doesn’t know how to read me and when I try to say anything, feeling get hurt. Guess I need to do the Rewarding Communications again!
Oh I understand! While I am also T2, I am far far less into the physical connection than my hubby, and he says I “think more like a guy” which I guess is my secondary 3 coming out.
Thanks for the links provided! I have to know though, where did Carol get those awesome pants that look like brown leather?! This T3 waaaaaaants!
Thanks Kate – they are a few years old, I can’t remember where I found them!!
This was such a wonderful video. Exactly what I have been needing. DYT you are always on point to what we need to learn and grow with. Thank you so much for your invaluable content and for being open about intimacy! Great topic and I would love more in this area. I definitely plan on being a forever lifestyle member.
I am a T2/1 and my husband is a T3/2. I am so grateful to have this information to help support my relationship.
This is such a helpful conversation! Thank you for sharing your experiences so openly.
Sigh, another video series that makes me question being a T2 because I am NOT one who loves physical connection. I want to get up and do things, and feel much closer to some one when we do something together… but I when I thought I was a T3 and dressed T3, etc. it began to feel like “too much” and my family didn’t think those outfits looked all that great on me. Gold jewelry definitely got a thumbs down. I get into details, and am definitely the ‘rock’ that holds the family together, good at staying the course (me and the Mississippi!). Facial profiling I stink at.. really. I can point out T2 and 3 features (at least I think I can) and can’t decide that I lead one way or the other. All that said – I can completely see how understanding your loved one’s type can make all the difference. Who ever marries my son will most definitely need to understand T4 nature, “the T4 force is strong in that one” for you Star Wars fans.
I loved this discussion. I don’t know if this combination of experts have been in previous videos before, but I really loved how they each communicated with each other. I am going to look into the rewarding communications course. I have dominant yang energy, and I knew that I communicated in a more “masculine” way but never felt comfortable with it and tried to downplay it. I want to improve the relationship with myself and communicate true to me instead of how others expect me to.
This was incredibly helpful to me! Thank you for creating this video, Carol! I really needed it. And thanks to the experts for sharing their insights! I learned a ton! The very last comment was the icing on the cake for me.
I (well, we) have been doing DYT since just after we married and I KNOW it saved out relationship, even that early on in our journey together… He’s a 4 and I’m a 2…. It has saved a lot of hurt feelings and misunderstandings…. We definitly still have things to work on and DYT continues to help us with those. One thing we both love and want is lots of affection and touch. I feel so grateful that even as a 4 he likes that too as I feel it is imperative to my being.